seeing.the.light
I spoke to Kristina the other day. I've really tried to keep to myself lately. I will always love her as is evident by the recent influx of emotions that have consumed me. but revelations of new have put things in a different perspective..Things are definitely not "right" between us.
She is very busy, always, is still dealing with an ex(albeit non-sexually.. I think),
and doesn't appear o have any free time in the future..Its funny how whenyou say these thigs out loud, the red flgs seem to hit you directly in the face, hmmm..
Only time will tell what the future holds for me, but I'll share my insights..beware young lovers if you see the following signs..
1) She's full of excuses.
She can't believe how crazy-busy her life is right now. Work is a nightmare and her friends are super demanding. She may be busy, sure, but the fine print is just that she's too busy - for you.
2) She talks about other guys.
It may be an obvious reference - like how she's recovering from an ex who's done her wrong - or she might casually mention a few of her guy pals
3) She's uncomfortable.
She's fidgety, glancing over your shoulder and giving you one-word answers to all your most interested questions. Listen to her body talk. Her body language - legs and arms crossed away from you, tapping her fingers or feet impatiently - will say if she's uncomfortable where she is..
Individually or even combined, these may be mere coincidences based upon your current relations.but take note and keep your eyes open..you may just`be barking up the wrong tree...
She is very busy, always, is still dealing with an ex(albeit non-sexually.. I think),
and doesn't appear o have any free time in the future..Its funny how whenyou say these thigs out loud, the red flgs seem to hit you directly in the face, hmmm..
Only time will tell what the future holds for me, but I'll share my insights..beware young lovers if you see the following signs..
1) She's full of excuses.
She can't believe how crazy-busy her life is right now. Work is a nightmare and her friends are super demanding. She may be busy, sure, but the fine print is just that she's too busy - for you.
2) She talks about other guys.
It may be an obvious reference - like how she's recovering from an ex who's done her wrong - or she might casually mention a few of her guy pals
3) She's uncomfortable.
She's fidgety, glancing over your shoulder and giving you one-word answers to all your most interested questions. Listen to her body talk. Her body language - legs and arms crossed away from you, tapping her fingers or feet impatiently - will say if she's uncomfortable where she is..
Individually or even combined, these may be mere coincidences based upon your current relations.but take note and keep your eyes open..you may just`be barking up the wrong tree...
Honestly, I don't think she's really interested...
Posted by
Arushi Nayar |
Friday, April 14, 2006 5:33:00 AM
Honey, it's always harder to see the red flags when you are so close "figuratively, not literally" to the person. But from here, it looks like she is drawing away.
But, you'll never know until you talk about it.
Good luck.
Posted by
Dana |
Wednesday, July 12, 2006 11:21:00 AM